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Confessions of an adulteress

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Confessions of an Adulteress

Everything that will ever happen to you already happened to you while you were in high school. I don’t know why that’s true, perhaps the psychoanalysts can come up with a reason for it, but we end up reliving the same experiences over and over again without ever really knowing what caused them in the first place.

I remember being at the mall with my friends. My best friend was Lisa and she was hot, but sweet, a nice cute girl, and she was there with this punk ass boy she had no business being with but was obsessing over. I understood her attraction, the boy was hot. He was smart, but he wasn’t good in school. He had this superficial bullshit Irish charm and he liked to drink and fuck and fight. He was always wearing these punk rock t-shirts to school and his hair was all fucked up looking and this stupid shit eating grin on his face all the time.

So me, Lisa, and the Punk and some other friends were looking at clothes in some shitty sweatshop labor store when I caught him looking at him and I smiled shyly, averting my eyes for just a long enough to look back, and flash a vulnerable glance in his direction; a glance like I couldn’t help myself; a glance like it was all over for me. He smiled knowingly while Lisa was looking at some cute shit she was going to buy and I grabbed something off the rack, biting my lip, staring at him, as I disappeared into a dressing room.

It didn’t take him long after that to slip inside behind the curtains. I was sitting there patiently with my top off and our eyes locked and he grunted. He lifted my chin with his fingers and I stood to embrace him embrace. He drew me nearer, unclasping my bra, and I was there before him exposed, my most personal parts laid bare with my best friend only a few feet away.

I sucked his dick right there in dressing room. It only took him about two minutes to cum. He was so turned on by that exchange. Eventually he meandered out into the store. No one had really noticed he was gone, even Lisa who was entranced by the latest fashions. Plus, he was only gone for two minutes. I stuffed the stupid blouse that had been my excuse to go in there in the first place into my pants and walked out myself a couple minutes later.

I remember asking Lisa a couple of days later if she ever fucked the punk. She did. That lucky boy got fucked by two hot girls in one night. I wondered if he was thinking about me when he was fucking her. It turned me on to think so. But I felt kinda bad too. I wanted to give Lisa the blouse I stole. I thought about it. But I kept it instead, kind of like a trophy.

In retrospect, I wonder if the only reason I married in the first place was to commit adultery. It’s really the fear of getting caught that is so exciting for me. That’s why that whole sex in public with the best friend’s boy was such a formative experience. I needed to get married in order to generate that feeling again. I liked my husband. He was always a good man and the sex was always good too, for what it was. But if it didn’t have that element of taking something that didn’t belong to me, or the possibility of being caught, or unmasked in some way then it never completely fulfilled me.

Eventually we did divorce. There was something pathetic about the lie he had built around our life together. It was unfair to him and unbecoming of a good, strong, man to have his self-conception be so riddled with holes. I never told him about my kinky misadventures behind his back. That too would be unfair. It may unburden me, but the lie was more comfortable than the truth.

Affair Dating Online

Nowadays my adulterous affairs are relegated to online affair dating. I seek out married men on affair dating websites to have adulterous affairs with. I’ve thought about having a steady boyfriend, someone who I can tease and taunt, even maybe someone I can eventually marry, but I’m not sure I’ll ever recapture that moment in the dressing room. I’ve done some crazy shit since then, though, a lot stuff that came awfully close.

Anyway, affair dating sites offer me hundreds of married men in my area to choose from. I do enjoy going through their profiles and learning about their lives. For them and for me, it’s really about recapturing something we both had in highschool which was sex and romance without the responsibility of intense and committed relationships.

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Extra-Marital Affair Dating Online

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Affair Dating Online

Hello, Interwebs peoples! My name is Tierra and today we’re going to talk a little bit about extra-marital affair dating online. There’s a lot of guys out there doing a lot of searches on the internet and someone, somewhere out there is collecting that information and trying to target them for scams. Guys are searching for real life desperate housewives, and real cheating housewives, all the time thinking they can score with these mythical ladies who are advertising the fact that they want to have sex on some website somewhere. Legitimate ones like Ashley Madison began a craze where married men and women who were in bad or dying marriages could find one another and either have an affair, or eventually move on with a new lover in their bed.

Affair Dating Scams

However, the majority of these sites which advertise for affair dating are complete scams, and one of the most obvious ways that you can tell is whether or not they are targeted specifically to one gender. Take Cheating Wives Date Link for instance. Total scam! Users who have used this site have reported getting several spam messages and the users don’t appear to be real at all.

The site itself does not lend itself to credibility. For instance, I as a woman would never sign up for a site called Cheating Wives Date Link because the whole thing sounds like a meat market for married women. It’s clearly aimed at selling women to men, which makes sense because the only legitimate service it appears to provide is cam girls.

Recently, people who are trying to have an extra-marital affair online are being targeted by scammers for the purpose of stealing their information. You’ll read in the terms of service and end user license agreements that any data you upload to certain affair dating sites can be used by the sites for any purpose. That includes your photos, your email address, your date of birth, your name, any personal information uploaded to the site immediately becomes their property to use as they wish.

You have to be very careful about which sites you use for that and a myriad of other reasons. And you have to be smart about who you give your credit card and email address to! You don’t have any idea what kind of malware or viruses might be hidden in an email nowadays. Hackers have become very clever about injecting code into links. If you get an email from a site that you signed up for, you don’t really think twice about clicking on it. Especially if you think that email comes from a beautiful woman who wants to chat with you. But trust me, no reasonable woman is going to sign up for a site called “Cheating Wives Date Link” because that’s a divorce lawsuit waiting to happen! What a site like this would offer you at best is access to cam girls and live sex shows, not actual cheating house wives!

But you have to ask yourself the question, if the site was offering legitimate live sex shows and cam girls, why would it need to do so deceptively? Lots of guys, married or otherwise love jerking off to live cam girls. It’s become one of America’s great pasttimes. You get to interact and talk to a hot girl. You can tell her what to do and she’ll do it. It’s hot. It’s sexy, but it doesn’t need any underhanded bait and switch advertising to make money. So why would a site like this use your desire for online affair dating to trick you into paying for cam girls? It’s because they want you to sign up for their site and give them your data.

Here’s the saddest part: there are legitimate internet sites out there for having affairs with married women. Married people feel safer having an affair on a website geared toward other married people because they’re both in the same boat, and there’s less risk of exposure because you’re both in it together. However, because they have so much to hide, they become the target of blackmailers and other con artists who are trying to use their vulnerable position to leverage them out of their money! What’s worse is that you have very little recourse once that happens. It’s not like you can sue the site for scamming you because then your wife is going to be all like “Why are you suing the affair dating website, honey?” and poof, there goes your marriage.

The best advice I can give you is to do your research and be smart about it. has a comprehensive list of all the scams in the dating world and which ones are the legitimate affair dating websites.

Good luck!